Let’s start this story with a beautiful thought people what is love is it liking someone, caring about someone, helping someone, Being Compassionate, Empathetic Sympathetic? Well That’s the Magic it’s Perspective whatever works for you but it should come from the heart…. The Ancient Greeks described love in 7 ways which can be described as somewhat true but who can say that such a powerful word can be encompassed into a category Truthfully speaking it can’t….

I am a Romantic person at heart so even if I can’t fully define this word I can assure you I have felt it a lot… We will be talking about a lot of things here but this topic is probably going to one of the most important .My journey of evolving as a writer if I may say so 🙂

Let’s start with latest my experience so I wouldn’t be shy to admit that throughout my school days I have had 6 crushes that is people I have really liked correction maybe some I liked more than others, some helped me in a lot ways, some became distant, but fun fact I never told any of them that I liked them cause that part my friend is personal and subjective so won’t suggest anything for it..

So This Talks about the one person who made me improve my self confidence and made my realise what is the true meaning of effort. It may sound very filmy but it’s true that I used to work out extensively for at least an hour a day sometimes even more but at a time when I was not nearly as fit as what I am today I was on the verge of being overweight and believe me No Gym, No diet just plain exercise and I lost over 10 kgs in 2 months for me that was a start to my journey of physical fitness. I did all of it not because I thought she would like me but even if she didn’t at least I would like myself more in the end… I remember it was 11th grade when I first felt something and that day you go crazy believe me * laughs * My heart was pounding, I felt super happy, excited and I realised okay yes something is there. I remember My best friend had to leave and I was almost not able to get a picture clicked with her but destiny had its plan and 15 minutes after that a random friend came to talk and she walked almost right passed me and I asked her and she just said yes with almost the same enthusiasm and excitement that I had… One of my most favourite pictures ever! Because it meant something more than 2 smiling people in a photograph. This made me realise that if you are real enough people will reflect that to you in their attitudes but only the ones who can truly feel for others and there are always exceptions.. So it’s been over 3 years after that incident I still occasionally talk to her and it feels nice. We are almost polar opposites in nature maybe that’s why the connect but a part of us knows we are similar in a lot more ways… Overall what I learnt from this is not definite because I have a lot more to learn from it in the future and what I already did learnt is that One sided love isn’t bad in fact it’s risk free, tension free, almost perfect it helps us grow truly value a person for what they are, think, Imagine and so many more things..So to end it I would like to say…

In One Sided love we may not have the One but don’t give up on yourself grow yourself make yourself a better person evolve into something new because if it works out then Destiny has done it’s work, If it doesn’t Destiny has still worked but regardless you are a better version of yourself and who knows what the future has in store for us….

Attraction Calls

Commitment Binds

But Love my Friend it Frees……